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Karen Cuthrell

The love of the family, the love of one person can heal. It heals scars left by a larger society.

 

Words cannot fully express my joy from our recent trip to New Jersey. As I prepared for the weekend, I felt a mix of emotions—apprehension, fear, and a dash of excitement—simply because I didn't know what to expect. You see, I am often told I like to control things, ensuring everything I do turns out wonderfully. But this was different. This time, I had no control over the outcome and had to release it into God's hands. I prayed fervently before setting out on this trip, asking Him to let His will be done—and He answered most beautifully.


My family of three gained four incredible new members quickly, and that alone is nothing short of amazing. Meeting the Treadwell family (my sister’s son and family) was something I had tucked away in my heart—something I hoped would happen but was prepared to accept if it didn't. After all, in life, we must first respond to our emotions, and I am committed to that. Therefore, to protect my feelings, my true attitude was “whatever.”


Walking up the sidewalk, I focused on my sister, ensuring she would be okay. Seeing you, Ryan, my new nephew, standing there, felt a little surreal. But it wasn't until I walked into that restaurant and saw Reina, Bryson, and the beautiful Simone that my heart truly melted. Let me just say it outright—Reina (who’s five years old), my spirit connected with yours in a way I haven’t felt since Lana was a little girl. Simone, you are one of the most beautiful people I have ever met, both inside and out. Your beauty radiates through everything you do. Your love shines in your children. Thank you for marrying and giving my nephew two beautiful children. And Bryson—oh, sweet Bryson, you are just as cute and smart as everything! I know a little boy like you, and I promise to speak with his grandmother to learn everything their family did to nurture him because you, my dear, are destined for greatness.


Nephew Ryan, I love you just as you are, exactly as you are, and I am so grateful you have allowed us to be a part of your life. I am grateful for the two wonderful parents who raised you. And because we have connected, there's no turning back now. There's no changing your mind because we are family, and with family, we love.


What stands out most in my heart now is the unspeakable joy I witnessed from my sister. It was a joy I had never seen in her—a happiness we had never shared or experienced as sisters. The way she embraced each of you with such warmth and love and how that love was so freely returned was a moment that touched my soul deeply. The hugs, the laughter, the kindness, the fun that flowed so effortlessly—it was a moment that will forever go down in my book of lifetime joys.


I cannot wait to see what the rest of this grand adventure holds for us. I am so deeply thankful to God and each of you for making this happen. I am overwhelmed with love and gratitude for my newfound family.


Lotta Love,

Auntie KK 


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